It's not a mood... it's a movement
Grief changes everything. From the smallest daily routine to the largest dreams and hopes, nothing remains untouched. At Grief Is My Side Hustle, we believe grief is a lifelong companion, not a temporary phase to "get over." It’s a living testament to love and connection, and it demands to be honored, not silenced.
In the weeks and months following a loss, life can feel surreal. Ordinary moments lose their color. Coffee tastes different. A walk through the neighborhood feels alien. The people you once laughed with seem distant. You are here, yet you are not the same. And this truth deserves acknowledgment, compassion, and space to be lived.
We are often pressured by society to "move on," "stay strong," or "find closure." But healing isn’t about closing doors. It’s about finding ways to live with the open wound, to carry the memories forward, and to allow grief to transform us rather than define us. Each person's journey is unique, nonlinear, and deeply personal.
Through sharing real stories, vulnerable reflections, and moments of collective mourning and celebration, we strive to create a community where grief is not taboo. It is recognized as a natural, if painful, aspect of being human. In our community, grief is not hidden. It is shared, spoken aloud, and gently held.
Loss often brings other emotions: anger, guilt, confusion, relief, even laughter. Yes, laughter. Because in the darkest moments, humor and lightness often find a way to sneak in, reminding us that we are still alive, still capable of feeling, still moving forward despite it all.
Here you will find essays that explore the landscape of grief — its terrain as rocky as it is beautiful. We offer resources for navigating grief during holidays, dealing with unexpected triggers, and supporting others through loss. You will read poetry that captures the unspeakable, reflections that give voice to the silences between heartbeats, and letters written to those we miss most.
We believe grief is a form of love that endures beyond death. It is sacred. It is honest. It is human. And while grief can be isolating, it also connects us in our shared vulnerability. In this space, you are seen. You are heard. Your grief matters.
Take your time here. Read what resonates. Share if you feel called to. Grieve openly. And know that while you walk this painful path, you are walking among kindred souls. We carry our loved ones within us. We carry our grief. And together, we continue to carry one another.
Welcome to Grief Is My Side Hustle. Welcome to a place where every tear is understood and every memory is sacred.